Raising Confident & Proud Kids: Celebrating Black History at Home

Black History Month is more than just a time to reflect on the past - it’s a chance to celebrate resilience, excellence, and joy. But for many parents, the question isn’t should we celebrate Black history with our kids, but rather how to make it a meaningful and lasting part of their lives.

The truth is, Black history isn’t just something to be learned in school or acknowledged once a year - it’s a vibrant, ongoing story that should be woven into everyday life. Whether you’re a Black parent raising confident and proud kids, or a parent of any background teaching your children about the richness of Black culture, there are countless ways to engage, educate, and empower through books, music, films, traditions, and conversations.

By making black history a living, breathing part of our family culture, we help our children build a deeper understanding of identity, resilience, and the contributions of those who came before them. And just as importantly, we show them that black history isn’t just about struggle - it’s about strength, innovation, beauty, and joy.

This month (and beyond), let’s explore meaningful ways to teach our children about black history in a way that builds confidence, pride, and a deep appreciation for the richness of black heritage.

Books are one of the most powerful tools we have to introduce our children to black history. Whether through historical narratives, inspiring biographies, or joyful everyday stories featuring black characters, representation in literature helps kids see themselves in a positive light and build empathy for others.

Here are some incredible books to add to your family’s collection:

 For Younger Kids (Ages 3-7): 

• Sulwe by Lupita Nyong’o – A beautiful story about self-love, representation, and the beauty of different skin tones.

• I Am Enough by Grace Byers – A poetic affirmation of self-worth and kindness.

• Mae Among the Stars by Roda Ahmed – An inspiring picture book about Mae Jemison, the first Black woman in space.

• I Got It From my Mama - By Tika Sumpter - A heartwarming tale that follows Ella, a curious child, as she navigates everyday mishaps and meaningful moments with her loving, honest mom. Through playful discoveries and unexpected lessons, this story beautifully reminds us that parenting isn’t about perfection - it’s about growth, understanding, and the power of saying “I’m sorry.

 For Older Kids (Ages 8+): 

• Little Leaders: Bold Women in Black History by Vashti Harrison – A collection of stories about trailblazing Black women.

• The Undefeated by Kwame Alexander – A lyrical tribute to Black resilience and excellence.

• Black Boy Joy edited by Kwame Mbalia – A vibrant collection of short stories celebrating Black boyhood.

📌  Tip:  Make reading a family event! Choose a book each week and discuss the lessons together.

Music is deeply woven into Black history, from the spirituals sung during slavery to jazz, blues, hip-hop, and beyond. Each genre tells a story of resilience, creativity, and cultural pride.

Here’s how to incorporate music into your child’s learning:

Create a Black History Month Playlist with songs by legendary artists like:

• Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong (Jazz)
• Nina Simone (Civil Rights Anthems)
• Stevie Wonder (Soul)
• Bob Marley (Reggae & Freedom Songs)
• Beyoncé’s Black Parade (Modern Celebration of Black Culture)

Make It Interactive: 

• Have a family dance night featuring these artists.
• Encourage kids to write their own lyrics about strength and pride.

Movies and TV shows can be a fun and engaging way to explore Black history and culture. Here are some great picks for family movie nights:

 For Younger Kids: 

• Hair Love (Short Film) – A heartwarming story about a father doing his daughter’s hair.
• Soul (Disney/Pixar) – A fun introduction to jazz and the importance of purpose.
• Doc McStuffins (TV Show) – Featuring a young Black girl as a doctor to her toys, promoting positive representation.
• Adventures of Curiousity Cove - A podcast about a young black girl called Ella the Curious exploring is a magical realm filled with endless adventures and original stories. 

 For Older Kids & Tweens: 

• The Princess and the Frog – Disney’s first Black princess story.
• Hidden Figures – The incredible true story of Black women mathematicians at NASA.
• Akeelah and the Bee – A feel-good film about perseverance and intelligence.
• Triple Six Eight - The true story of the 855 Black women who cleared a massive WWII mail backlog, ensuring soldiers received messages from home.

Black history isn’t just about famous figures - it’s about everyday heroes, too. Our own families hold stories of resilience, love, and culture that deserve to be honored and passed down.

Explore Your Own Family’s History:

• Sit down with older relatives and document your family tree.
• Encourage kids to interview grandparents about their childhood experiences.
• Create a “Legacy Album” with old photos and stories about family members who paved the way.

Have Real Conversations About Race & Identity: 

Helping kids feel confident and proud means giving them the space to ask questions and express their thoughts about race, representation, and inclusion.

• For younger kids:  Keep it simple. Use books and everyday moments to talk about diversity and fairness.
• For older kids:  Encourage critical thinking. Discuss current events, representation in media, and the importance of standing up for justice.
• For all ages:  Model confidence and pride. Show them that celebrating Black history isn’t just for February - it’s for every day.

📌  Tip:  If you’re not sure how to start, try these questions:

 • “What does it mean to be proud of who you are?”

 • “Who in Black history inspires you?”

 • “How can we celebrate Black culture beyond this month?”

By embracing our own family traditions while having open and honest conversations, we help our children build a sense of identity, pride, and belonging.